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Friday, June 17, 2016

What Mom Told His Son a Day Before Marriage is Awesome

Are you married or preparing to get married? Pls read this....

Mummy’s boy, you are now a man. Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more than you love me. 

Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words to guide you. There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were screaming, tempers were high. I was angry and he was angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked. He looked at me asking how dare I call him that? Immediately,I started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy, I called him all sorts of names. Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.
My Son, if your father had hit me and damaged my face, how would you feel sitting here with me today? How would you regard him as your father? Would you have been proud of him or would you be blaming me for calling him names? Never hit your wife! No matter the provocation; just walk away and things will be normal. Whenever she offends you, think of this story I just told you, it could have been your mum!

Before I forget, after he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know he loves pounded yam and Vegetable soup right? After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.

There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hate her, it is your duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your uncle, I mean Uncle Samuel, never liked me. But your father was always supportive until his perception changed and he continued to support me.
 
There was a day your father was going to host his boss and friends. They were three. That day I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks. When the table was set and food was served, everyone started eating. Then I remembered I did not add salt in the food. I was embarrassed.
 
Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body. He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed! The guests understood and he asked me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt. After the guests left, he went on his knees and asked God to forgive him for lying.

Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she doesn’t know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!
Now let me talk to you about sex. You see, sex is a wonderful thing. Do not be surprised if your wife enjoys and needs sex more than you do. There were days, I needed sex more than your father did and there were days he needed it more than I did but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need arises. Don’t always think of yourself.

There was a time things were hard and I needed to do two jobs to support your father. One night, I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood. He tried to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he needs me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understands me better. He stopped and then started telling me stories until I fell asleep.

My son, sex is best enjoyed when the two parties are physically and mentally ready for it. Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.

Make it a habit to go everywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her. If anyone invites you to his house and tells you not to come with your wife then be very careful. Use wisdom.
I know you love mummy… I know you tell me all your problems. But now things will be different.
Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.

When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately. Wait for a day or two days to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it. Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.
Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me with your wife every month!

I know you will have a happy home. You will always be mummy’s boy. God will bless your home. Pls don't forget God, pray and seek His assistance always....

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Investing in Your Health is The Beat Investment in The World.

What good it is to have more money, more time and lifestyle without that one jest of life health. Being healthy is the secret for better life. I recently read in one of the book which states a wealthy life is not only making money. But it is a combination of time with the family, money, health and better lifestyle.

In recent days, I started concentrating more on my health. Whenever, I read a newspaper, there is always one article related heart disease, malnutrition, pesticides. Now it has become a trend people saying we use only organic products. How sure are we? How the retailer can guarantee that the products sold in their stalls are organic? Is no adulteration in the products in the market?

One day, I entered into an organic store in Chennai which is located in ECR. I saw a person picking few products. I just interrupted and got  my self introduced. I just asked him how do you claim these  products are organic how they are different from other products in the other stores.? He replied these items are costly and hence they are organic.


On the  other hand, I understand we will not be able to cultivate and harvest our own crops, fruits, vegetables. However, it is doable if you have a small garden in your house and make gardening and farming as your hobby.

 Please find few details and stats that are really shocking.

We live in the age of medical breakthroughs. Enhanced treatments, therapies, drugs and technologies improve the science and medicine every year. However,
  • The prevalence of heart disease is up to 10% since 1999. 
  • Heart disease is the No 1 killer in the US.
  • The prevalence of cancer is nearly 20% since 1999.
  • Cancer is the second most killer in the US.
  • The prevalence of diabetes is up to 35% since 1999
There are also other diseases like:
  • Kidney Failure
  • Blindness
  • Stroke
  • Amputations
  • Heart Attack

There are research results stating:

1 in 3 children live shorter lives than their parents. 

The question is why are we not healthier? This is mainly because of these reasons:

  • Over fed
  • Undernourished
Take a few seconds to think about it. We always choose convenience over our stuff.  Please note the following details:
  • The fast food sales has increased 2000% since 1981
  • We eat fast food more than twice in a week.
  • It leads to increased risk of diabetes.
  • Only 2% get daily recommended servings of fruits and vegetables.
  • 38% decrease in reduced nutritional value.
With proper nutrition and good life style, the following are preventable:
  • 80% heart disease in women is preventable
  • 60% of the cancer related deaths can be prevented.
  • 90% of all type II diabetes is preventable.
Proper nutrition and supplementation are critical. Give your body the nutrients it needs. Invest in your health today.

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