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Thursday, October 27, 2016

How to Celebrate Diwali in An Eco Friendly Way ?

As it comes every year, we do not forget to celebrate Diwali and wish our friends and family. I would like to start my opinion about celebrating diwali stating it is your choice. You can choose to celebrate in which ever manner you prefer. However, how about having a second thought on how to celebrate diwali in an eco friendly way.

There can be multiple reasons why we must celebrate diwali. But, in my point of view it is another opportunity for us (family, relatives and friends) to get together. I would like to make a strait forward point that bursting crackers is not the healthy way to celebrate diwali. There are sevaral healthy ways to celebrate diwali.





Crackers are harming us in sevaral ways. The ill effects of crackers can be listed as follows:
  • Air Pollution
  • Noise Pollution
  • Global Warming
  • Garbage
  • Fires
  • Injuries
If we avoid crackers and start the habbit of giving the money, sweet and new dress to the needy, it will be one of the memorable moment.

Who Makes Money While Celebrating Diwali with Cracker?


It is the company owners who makes money. Are these company owners are really poor? Anyway the poor employees are paid with their salary.

Everyone makes the diwali moment to work for them. They grow their business in every possible way. I really wonder what does Coca Cola has to do with diwali. Why llyod tv advertises uses cricket stars to express diwali wishes. Ofcourse they are making money. But, what is our contribution towards the betterent of our people and country.

As it is stated by Rajinikanth in Sivaji film, the richer and are getting richer and the poor are getting poor. Do you belive that our action can contribute to the betterment of some section of socity. How about creating an impact on someone elses life by buying things, contributing and wishing them.

Do you believe each and every decision you make gives an opportunity for someone else to make money? To whom you are giving that opportunity to?

If you decide to eat outside, the hotel owner makes money. But the question is to whom we are giving the opportunity to become better. A person who is already wealthy or to someone who is looking forward to make some extra money to offer a new dress for his kid? So why not we change our buying habbits for the betterment of others in need.

If you decide to buy sweets, you can either buy it from any branded retail outlets or get it from your known person. If you give your sweet order to someone from your family member or friends circle who is in the related profession, they will get an opportunity to make some money and lead a better day. It is just a decision away.

The opportunity is in our hands. Let us decide whom to help.

You might have studied this thirukkural in our school days. It talks about, using kind words as a choice instead of harsh words. The kural goes like this:

Iniya Ulavaaga Innaatha Kooral
Kani Iruppa Kai Kavarthattru.

The tamil version is:

இனிய உளவாக இன்னாத கூறல்
கனியிருப்பக் காய் கவர்ந்தற்று
So, I would like to relate this one to our diwali celebration. When thera is a healthy way of celebrating diwali, why should we choose the unhealthy action.

 Watch the Video About Bringing Humanity Back by Acto Varun Paruthi


Monday, October 24, 2016

APJ Abdul Kalam Inspirational Speeches for Students | SRM University | TR Pachamuthu | Sathyanarayan

Recently I happened to watch a inspirationsl video of Dr. APJ Abdul kalam inspirational speeches for students at SRM University in the presence of the chancellor TR Pachamuthu in kattankulathur, chennai.

I thought of sharing this video to everyone. The level at which our former president was highliy inspiring and exemplary. The legend starts his speech in tamil saying "Nanbarhale! Ungal Ellorukkum Vanakkam". The students raise their support by shouting and getting excited about abdul kalam talking in tamil.

Dr Kalam, speaks about his dream coming true, enlightedned citizen and the how to reach our dreams. The speech is highly motivational and inspiring. A must watch video for everyone who loves Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam.




Thursday, September 15, 2016

I Salute Tamil Nadu People, Tamil Nadu Police and Everyone Who Are Putting their Best Foot Forward to Maintain the Peace

Recently I happened to read one of the facebook post shared by a friend of mine. It really made sense. I thought, I would like to add few ore and share with you in my blog.

In my personal opinion, I would like to respect and salute all people living in tamil nadu and being patient enough to handle the situation. I am really feeling proud that people in our state are matured enough to handle the adverse situation. I can't imagine what will happen, if karnataka buses in tamilnadu were burnt. Remember, its our infrastructure too that will be damaged.

I also read another scenario where a karnataka registered vechicle met with an accident in tirunelvely highway. However, the tamilnadu people around the place made them feel comfortable and removed the fear in their mind. Does it make us feel proud? 

How about sharing such scenarios? 


Another scenario is, the relatives of my house owners left to Bangalore with KA registered vechicle. Infact, we even told them that it is not safe to travel at this tensed situation. However, they still took the opportunity to travel to bangalore. Later, we received the information from them that they were escorted by police from Krishnakiri to Bangalore. 

How safe and proud moment is this? 

We have received couple of videos about tamilnadu people beaten in Karnataka. At the same time, there sevaral karnataka people helped tamilnadu people to be safe by providing the accomodation, food and shelter. What are we going to do for them?

Just notice how humanity is expressed eautifully  Here.

Sharing in Social Media - Do's and Dont's
Now a days, media plays its role in pouring oil in the burning fire. However, we must learn to validate the information and ensure that our action helps to control the situation rather than inspiring someone emotionally. If you read any news related to religion, region, caste or any discrimination that may lead to emotional disaster, it is our duty to validate and to forward the inforation related to it. Just do not blindly forward the inforation as it is. We as an individual is reponsible for everything that happens because of our activity.

The Facebook Post Received From My Friend
In future, if there is any situation occurs,like this, let us pledge that we only promote peace. We shall do anything to bring the situation under control.

For all those people who post memes against the Ruling AIADMK and DMK in Cauvery issue, Think before you post Another meme and instigate people in the name of TAMIL.

If Jayalalitha or Karunanidhi would have issued strong statements like those of Karnataka politicians, TAMILNADU would be burning now.

Then the same people will say "Whats wrong with the government and opposition party in TN, they are doing all these stunts for political reasons, in the name of Language, public properties are destroyed etc."

For those educated idiots who are posting  memes against TN politicians, do you want to have a 
situation like Bangalore where common people are suffering because of politicians?

The image of Bangalore is in drains which will be understood once major companies and MNCS pull out of Bangalore and relocate to Chennai or places where there in the sensible handling of issues like this.

Do you want to have situations where youngsters try to burn themselves which happened in Chennai today because of a leader whose speech propelled the guy to do so? Who will answer his family now ? 

You might post a few condolences memes for  a week or so. What next? What will happen to that family? Can someone remember a person named K.Muthukumar who committed suicide for SriLanka issue? Any idea what happened to his family now? No one knows or cares.
That's what happens to people who die in the name of Language, religion or region. Imagine if AIADMK and DMK joined these  protests in Cauvery issue, how many such incidents will happen? We would be having Lot of forgotten Muthukumars.

All of a sudden, I see a lot of tamil protectors jumped from the sky overnight. If those protectors know what happened in 1991, they won't be posting any memes that create hatred. I request all those overnight Cauvery protectors to learn about the 1991 Cauvery riots before posting another meme.



In this situation, I strongly feel that the ruling AIADMK and the Opposition DMK are doing their best that is to keep calm and do the routine tasks.

Same goes to Cine industry as well. I am glad that they are also maintaining sensible handling of the issue, unlike Karnataka cine industry.

This s a very rare scene in TN politics where both these parties are in the same frequency. Though a lot of ppl hate these two parties, I have to salute these parties on handling last few days politics. Otherwise, Tamilnadu would be BURNING now.

If you agree to what ever is discussed, do not miss to express your opinion. Share this to your friends and let us ensure that everyone understand their role during public rivalary. 

Sunday, August 14, 2016

T T Rangarajan Speaks On Emotional Adulthood. You can experience the voice of love.



T.T.Rangarajan Founder of Alma matter Speaks On Emotional Adulthood. You can experience the voice of love. Understanding the concept of acceptance.

T T Rangarajan : Difference between Tolerance and Anger


When you come to know that something is going to happen the way in which it should not happen, it becomes tolerance when you accept it. When you don't accept it, it becomes anger. Says the founder of alma matter T T Rangarajan.

What is Fear?


When you are aware that some uncertainty is going to happen or when I don't know what's is going to happen,  it is called fear.

When you are facing uncertainty and you're able to accept it, it is called an adventure. When you are unable to accept it becomes fear.

What are Jealous and Inspiration?


When somebody is able to produce the result that you are unable to when you don't accept it, it becomes jealous and when you accept it, it becomes an inspiration.

The difference between Negative and Positive Emotion by T T Rangarajan.

Something when handled with nonacceptance, it becomes negative emotion. Something when handled with acceptance,  it becomes positive emotion.


Tuesday, July 19, 2016

மகிழ்ச்சி எங்கே,எப்படி,எதில் கிடைக்கும் ?

பெரிய ஹாலில் செமினார் நடந்து கொண்டிருந்தது.  அப்போது பேச்சாளர் எல்லார் கையிலும் ஒரு பலூனை கொடுத்து தங்கள் பெயரை எழுத சொன்னார்.


எல்லோரும் தங்கள் பெயரை பலூனில் எழுதி முடித்தவுடன, அதை இன்னொரு அறையில் நிரப்ப சொன்னார்.



இப்பொழுது அந்த பேச்சாளர், உங்கள் பெயர் எழுதிய பலூனை அந்த அறைக்குள் இருந்து எடுத்து வாருங்கள் என்று அறிவித்தார். உடனடியாக அனைவரும் விழுந்து அடித்து அந்த அறைக்குள் ஓடிச் சென்று ஒவ்வொரு பலூனாக எடுத்து தேடினர் .

ஒருவருக்கொருவர் நெக்கி தள்ளிக்கொண்டு கீழே விழுந்து தங்கள் பெயருக்குரிய பலூன் கிடைக்கிறதா என்று பரபரப்பாக தேடினர். 5 நிமிடம் கடந்த போதிலும் ஒருவராலும் தங்களுக்குறிய பலூனை தேடி கண்டு பிடிக்க
முடியவில்லை.

இப்பொழுது அந்த பேச்சாளர் சொன்னார், ’ஒவ்வொருவரும் ஒரு பலூன் மட்டும் எடுங்கள், அந்த பலூனில் யார் பெயர் இருக்கிறதோ அதை அந்த பெயர்
உடைய நபரிடம் கொடுங்கள்’ என்றார்.

அடுத்த ஒரே நிமடத்தில் தங்கள் பெயர் எழுதப்பட்ட பலூன் எல்லோருக்கும்
கிடைத்துவிட்டது. இப்பொழுது அந்த பேச்சாளர் சொன்னார், ’இது தான்
வாழ்க்கை. எல்லோரும் மகிழ்ச்சியை தேடுகிறோம், ஆனால்
அது எங்கே,எப்படி,எதில் கிடைக்கும் என்று நினைப்பது இல்லை’.

’நம்ம சந்தோஷம் அடுத்தவர்களுக்கு உதவுவதில் தான் இருக்கிறது.
அடுத்தவர்களுக்கு மகிழ்ச்சியை கொடுங்கள், உங்கள்
மகிழ்ச்சி உங்களை தேடி வரும்’.

Monday, July 11, 2016

பாலுக்கு ஏற்பட்ட வருத்தம்!

கஷ்டம், கஷ்டம், கஷ்டத்துக்கு மேல் கஷ்டம், தாங்க முடியலே…
எதுக்குத் தான்பா இந்த கஷ்டம்… என்கிற கேள்வி மனதில் இல்லாதவர்கள் இல்லை. 

இந்தப் பதிவு அதற்கு விடையளிக்கக் கூடும். சமீபத்தில் முகநூலில் படித்த ஒரு அற்புதமான கதையை இங்கு உங்களிடம் பகிர்கிறோம். அனைவருக்கும் தேவையான ஒரு நீதி!

பாலுக்கு ஏற்பட்ட வருத்தம்!



பாலுக்கு ஒரு பெரிய வருத்தம். பசுவின் வயிற்றில் நான் இருந்தேன்.
என்னை ஒருத்தி கறந்து பாத்திரத்தில் ஊற்றினாள். 

அடுப்பைப் பற்றவைத்து,அந்தப் பாத்திரத்தை அடுப்பில் வைத்து, சூடாக்கினாள். எனக்கு சூடு தாங்கவில்லை. துடித்துப் போனேன்.

பசுவின் வயிற்றில் பத்திரமாக இருந்த எனக்கு இப்படி ஏன் ஒரு சோதனை?”
என்று என்னை நானே நொந்து கொண்டேன். 

பொங்கிய நிலையில் என்னை அடுப்பிலிருந்து இறக்கிவைத்தாள்.
நேரமாக, நேரமாக நான் ஆறியதும், புளித்த மோரைக் கொண்டு வந்து என்னோடு சேர்த்தாள். 

இது என்னடா புது தண்டனை?” என்று வருத்தப்பட்டேன்.
அதன் பிறகு யாரும் என்னைப் பற்றிக் கவலைப்படவில்லை. திரவமாக இருந்த நான் திடமாக மாறிப்போனேன். 

எனக்குத் தயிர் என்று புதிதாக ஒரு பெயரை வைத்தார்கள்.

அத்துடன் நிறுத்தினார்களா? என்னை ஒரு பானையில் ஊற்றி,
மத்து கொண்டு கடைய ஆரம்பித்தார்கள். நான் மறுபடி மோர் என்ற திரவமானேன். என்னுள்ளிருந்தே ஒரு திடப்பொருளை வரவழைத்து,
அதற்கு வெண்ணெய் என்று பெயர் வைத்தார்கள். 

‘பட்டர்’ என்ற பெயரைக் கேட்டதும், அப்பாடா! இனியாவது என் வாழ்க்கை ‘பெட்டர்’ ஆகுமா?” என்று ஏங்கினேன். அத்துடன் தீர்ந்ததா என் கஷ்டம்? 


அந்த வெண்ணெயை, மறுபடி அடுப்பில் வைத்து உருக்கினார்கள்.
எனக்கு நெய் என்று இன்னொரு புதுப் பெயரை வைத்தார்கள்.
உருக்கிய நெய்யை ஒரு ஜாடியில் ஊற்றி, அந்த வீட்டில் ஜன்னலுக்குப் பக்கத்தில் வைத்தார்கள்.

பாலாக இருந்த நான், பட்ட கஷ்டங்களையும், இப்போதுள்ள நிலைமையையும் நினைத்தபடியே இருந்த நேரத்தில்,
ஜன்னலுக்கு வெளியில் இரண்டு பெண்கள் ஏதோ பேசிக்கொண்டே செல்வதை நான் கவனித்தேன். 

ஒருத்தி உங்க ஊர்ல பால் என்ன விலை?” என்று கேட்டாள்.
அதற்கு அடுத்தவள், அரை லிட்டர் 20 ரூபா” என்றாள். உடனே முதல் பெண்மணி, ஆனா இந்த நெய் விற்கிற விலையைப் பார்த்தியா? 

அரை லிட்டர் கேட்டால் கடைக்காரன் 100 ரூபா விலை சொல்றான்” என்றாள்.
ஜன்னல் பக்கத்திலே, ஜாடிக்குள்ளே இருந்த நான் அவர்கள் பேசிக்கொண்டதைக் கேட்டு ஆச்சர்யப்பட்டேன். 

பாலாக இருந்தபோது என் மதிப்பு வெறும் 20 ரூபாதான்,
ஆனால், பல கஷ்டங்களை அனுபவித்து, நெய்யான பிறகு, என் மதிப்பு 100 ரூபாயாகக் கூடிவிட்டதே! இதை நினைக்கிறபோது,
நான் பட்ட கஷ்டங்கள் எல்லாம் எனக்கு ஒரு பொருட்டாகவே தெரியவில்லை!” என்றது அந்த நெய்.

இந்தக் கதை மூலம் நமக்குக் கிடைக்கிற பாடம் என்ன?

நாம் வாழ்க்கையில் சந்திக்கும் சவால்களும், கஷ்டங்களும்தான் நம்முடைய வாழ்க்கையின் தரத்தை, மதிப்பை  உயர்த்துகிற அம்சங்கள்
பிடித்தால் பகிருங்கள் வாழ்த்துக்களோடு.

Friday, June 17, 2016

What Mom Told His Son a Day Before Marriage is Awesome

Are you married or preparing to get married? Pls read this....

Mummy’s boy, you are now a man. Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more than you love me. 

Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words to guide you. There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were screaming, tempers were high. I was angry and he was angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked. He looked at me asking how dare I call him that? Immediately,I started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy, I called him all sorts of names. Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.
My Son, if your father had hit me and damaged my face, how would you feel sitting here with me today? How would you regard him as your father? Would you have been proud of him or would you be blaming me for calling him names? Never hit your wife! No matter the provocation; just walk away and things will be normal. Whenever she offends you, think of this story I just told you, it could have been your mum!

Before I forget, after he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know he loves pounded yam and Vegetable soup right? After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.

There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hate her, it is your duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your uncle, I mean Uncle Samuel, never liked me. But your father was always supportive until his perception changed and he continued to support me.
 
There was a day your father was going to host his boss and friends. They were three. That day I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks. When the table was set and food was served, everyone started eating. Then I remembered I did not add salt in the food. I was embarrassed.
 
Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body. He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed! The guests understood and he asked me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt. After the guests left, he went on his knees and asked God to forgive him for lying.

Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she doesn’t know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!
Now let me talk to you about sex. You see, sex is a wonderful thing. Do not be surprised if your wife enjoys and needs sex more than you do. There were days, I needed sex more than your father did and there were days he needed it more than I did but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need arises. Don’t always think of yourself.

There was a time things were hard and I needed to do two jobs to support your father. One night, I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood. He tried to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he needs me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understands me better. He stopped and then started telling me stories until I fell asleep.

My son, sex is best enjoyed when the two parties are physically and mentally ready for it. Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.

Make it a habit to go everywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her. If anyone invites you to his house and tells you not to come with your wife then be very careful. Use wisdom.
I know you love mummy… I know you tell me all your problems. But now things will be different.
Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.

When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately. Wait for a day or two days to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it. Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.
Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me with your wife every month!

I know you will have a happy home. You will always be mummy’s boy. God will bless your home. Pls don't forget God, pray and seek His assistance always....

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